Ami Ayalon’s Friendly Fire gives an insider’s perspective of the ongoing Israeli-Palestinian conflict

If you were to stop a Palestinian on the street in Jerusalem or Gaza and ask them how Israel became its own worst enemy, they’d probably tell you that establishing a Jewish state in Palestine was a pretty good start.

More than 70 years after al-Nakbah, the “catastrophe” which saw hundreds of thousands of people expelled from their ancestral lands, Palestinians are still traumatised by the events of 1948. And who can blame them?

The Zionist settlers expropriated the fleeing Palestinians’ stone houses, seized their abandoned olive groves, and renamed the few villages they didn’t bulldoze, all the while denying them any “right of return”.

In Friendly Fire, Ayalon doesn’t identify the expulsion of between 700,000 and 800,000 people from their homeland as Israel’s most shameful own goal, but rather its mishandling of Palestinian terror.

As head of Shin Bet, Ayalon claims that he had to move beyond the “us-versus-them thinking” that had served him well during his storied career in the Navy.

“Learning to view Palestinians as human beings with rights alerted me to a basic flaw in our approach to our security: Our absence of empathy corrupted our ability to assess dangers and opportunities.

“Fear made us overreact”, he writes.

Read the review by TJCollins in The Canberra Times.